About
The goal of my blog is to share insights and experiences I have enjoyed while exploring intense, erotic bonds with other men involving power imbalance, power exchange, and inequality. I am a bright, compassionate, sensitive man, but I am also a dark, sadistic, impatient, selfish, vile man with a greatly exaggerated sense of entitlement. My first real BDSM relationship began in 1995, and I am proud to say that in that relationship I was the slave. That Master taught me much about dominance and submission in the relatively short time I served him, and since he and I parted ways, I have been almost exclusively dom. I’m also proud to be able to say, quite sincerely, that I have never inflicted more pain on a sub than I can handle myself–although I can bear quite a lot.
In 2005 I claimed my own permanent, 24/7 live-in slave. Owning my slave has been one of the most enlightening experiences of my life, and much of what I write about in this blog is informed by the insights I’ve gained as a slaveowner. As you may surmise after reading a few of my posts, I find the greatest sexual gratification in the extremes, not the gray areas. For me, the tail ends of the bell curve are where it’s at. The headspace I enjoy most is one shared with another man who also understands that a dom’s satisfaction means everything, and that a sub’s gratification is irrelevant.
A word about the chronology of this blog. Some readers have asked what I do with my slave while I’m using these other boys/subs/slaves, etc. I want to be up front about the fact that I take essentially a chronological approach to posting entries to my blog, and that the events you read about in the earliest posts may date back as far as 2005, before I claimed my slave. Over time I will catch you up to the present. My hope is that in this way I can capture the way that my perceptions and approach have evolved over time. Nothing is static, so when you read about 2007 and 2008 events, you may find that I have changed, or grown, for better or worse.
In terms of bio type information, I am a 46 yo gay, leathered, inked, pierced, skin biker living in Chicago. I stand at 6 feet, 5 inches tall, about 260 lbs., with brown hair, green eyes, shaved head, bearded, 44c/36w/19a, and size 15 boots. While I don’t consider labels adequate to describe a person, I consider myself to be the edgy, leathered, beefy daddy type. I’m a professional by day, and happy to be a booted, gloved, jeans and leather jacket kind of guy by night. My interests include tatts, motorcycles, piercing, travel, books, film, music, power imbalance, and exploring intense erotic bonds with other bright dominant sadistic men. You might not know it by reading my blog, or if you were to see me on the street, but I’m very approachable. I welcome comments, questions and suggestions.
My YIM = DarkDad9
My e-mail = LthrSkinBiker@gmail.com
My Twitter = www.twitter.com/LthrSkinBiker
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There was a Chicago master’s site a number of years ago that led off with “Follow Your Destiny.” One comment that I’ve always remembered is “a slave in clothes is like a fish out of water.” I haven’t been able to find that site in the years since, but the “destiny” theme is what grabs me. It’s the stuff of so many classic stories — “waking up to who we really are.” In this case, its about a natural hierarchy of “served” and “servers,” which many of us have come to understand only haphazardly. On one of the cockworship sites (”Temple of Cock” or “TotalCockWorship”), the author laid out a six-level hierarchy of cocks, from “slave” cock (maybe 60 percent of gay men) to “King Cock” (a very rare phenomenon). It made basic sense to me.
What do you think?
UticaJoe
UticaJoe,
I feel that there is natural hierarchy, or order, that prevails among men. There are those men who are best suited to lead, control, decide. And there are those men who need to be led, be controlled, and have decisions made for them. Many men fail to recognize their own true nature, and consequently either unwittingly act against that nature, or fail to fully embrace it, and own it. Call it “served” and “server,” “dom” and “sub,” Master and slave, Daddy and son, Sir and boy—the common thread is some degree of inequality. For many men, inequality represents a comfort zone. It just feels right.
LSB
Hello SIR,
I am a for real no limits slave also that does not use drugs. I am 44 years old and still looks pretty good. I come to chicago a lot. was wondering if you had any interest. I’m new to blogging
regis BOTTOM slave,
I’m open to corresponding with you. email me at LthrSkinBiker@gmail.com